My husband left me
Sharing of a woman abandoned by her husband.
මගේ සැමියා මාව අතහැරියා
තම සැමියා විසින් අත්හැර දමා ඇති කාන්තාවක් ලියාපදිංචි කිරීම.
என் கணவர் என்னை விட்டுச்சென்றார்
கணவனால் கைவிடப்பட்ட பெண்ணின் பதிவு.
CMP/AMP/SAM/MLY/02
V.Razeena (56)
Al-Marilal Street,
Malayadi – 03
Sammanthurai
My name is Razeena. We have been living in Veeracholai Vathalakulam since 1960. There are 56 families here. There are 7 in my family including my father and mother (2 males, 3 females). My father did labour work and looked after my family. I was married in 1980 and I have a son. My husband also went for labour work and lived with small problems.
One day in n1987, a tamil person came running and told us that there was a problem at Maiyawadi and asked us to run. We didn’t know what to do and left without taking anything and left without even closing the house door. We went through 5th colony and reached Veerathidal. We stayed in the mosque for one and half days. We went to Sammanthurai Girls school with the help of the Indian Army.
My husband left me saying that it was a LTTE controlled area. My mother was with me. As there was no facilities in the school, some huts were built for our accommodation and assistance was given to us. We stayed there for a year. After that we built a hut in relative’s place and lived there for 5 years. I remarried a driver in 1996 but there was no children. He died in an accident in 2001. As we were affected by terrorism, we were asked to sign a voucher for 25000/= but only 15000/= was given to us.
We went to see the state of our house but there was nothing there. There was no sign of our hens, cows and goats. We were afraid to stay there. We bought a small land. That’s where we stay now. There was much poverty. All is Allah’s will
වෙ. රසීිනා 56
අල්මරියාන් වීදිය
මලයඩි 03
සම්මාන්තුෙරෙ.
මගේ නම රසීනා. අපි හැමෝම වීරච්චෝලයි ඒත්තාලංකුලම්හි 1960 වර්ෂයේ සිට ජීවත් වන්නෙමු. මෙහි පවුල් 6 ක් වාසය කරයි. අපි හැමෝම අම්මා තාත්තාත් සමඟ පවුලේ සාමාජිකයන් 07 දෙනායි. (පිරිමි 2. ගැහැණු 3* තාත්තා කුලී වැඩකර ඉතා අමාරුවෙන් අපව පෝෂණය කරා. 1980 දී මම විවාහ වුනෙමි. මට පිරිමි දරුවෙක් සිටියි. මගේ සැමියාත් කුලී වැඩ කරයි. පොඩි පොඩි ප්රශ්නත් ඇති වෙනවා.
1987 දී දිනය මතක නැහැ. දෙමළ තරුණයෙක් ඔහුව අපි අඳුරනවා. ඔහු ඇවිත් අපට මෝචරිය පැත්තේ කලබල ඇතිවෙලා ඔයාලා පැනලා දුවන්න යැයි අපට කීවා. අපි ඉන්පසුව කර කියා ගත නොහැකිව බඩු මුට්ටු කිසිවක් අපි ගත්තේ නැහැ. දොරවල් වැහුවෙත් නැතිව අපි 5 වැනි කොලනිය පහුකර දිව පැන ගොස් වීරතිඩල්වලට ගියෙමු. එහෙ ගොස් පල්ලියේ සිටියෙමු. එහිදී අපට ආහාර ලබා දුන්නා. එහෙ දින 1 යි වරුවකුත් ගත කරා. ඉන්පසුව ඉන්දීය හමුදාවේ උදව්වෙන් සම්මාන්තුෙරෙයි බාලිකා විද්යාලයට රැුගෙන ගොස් නතර කළා.
එතැන කොටින්ගේ තැනක් යැයි පවසා මගේ සැමියා අපව අතහැර ගියා.(මස්සිනා අම්මා 75 වයස*අපෙත් එක්ක හිටියා. පාසලේ ඉඩ පහසුකම් මදි යැයි අපට කූඩාරම් සාදා දුන්නා. එහෙත් අපි අවුරුද්දක් සිටියෙමු. ඉන්පසුව නෑදෑයින්ගේ නිවස අසල කූඩාරමක් තනා අවුරුදු 5 ක් සිටියෙමු. මගේ සැමියාත් මාව අතහැර ගියා. ඉන්පසුව මම 1996 දී රියදුරෙක්ව විවාහ කර ගත්තා. ඔහුට දරුවන් නැහැ. ඉන්පසුව 2001 දී අනතුරකින් ඔහු මිය ගියා. මට කුමක් කළ හැකිද ඒ කාලයේ ත්රස්ථවාදී කරදරවලට පත් වෙච්ච අයට රු. 25,000 ක් අත්සනක් ලබා ගෙන දුන්නා. නමුත් අපට රු. 15,000 ක් පමණක් ලබා දුන්නා.
ඒ අතරේ අපි අපේ නිවසට ගොස් බැලූවෙමු. එහෙ කිසිවක් නැත. (එළුවන්, ගවයන්, කුකුළත් ,වී* එහි සිටින්නත් බියක් දැනුන නිසා අපි එහි සිටියේ නැහැ. ඊට පස්සේ ඉන්පසු කුඩා වලව්ව ඉඩමක් අරගෙන දැන් අපි පදිංචිව සිටින ලිපිනය එයයි. දුප්පත්කමෙන් ඉතා අමාරු තත්ත්වයෙන් අපි කුමක් කරන්නද? අල්ලාහ් දෙවියන් තමයි හැම දේම....
CMP/AMP/SAM/MLY/2
றசினா
அல் மரியாள் வீதி
மலையடி 3
சம்மாந்துறை
என்ட பேரு றசினா. நாங்கள் எல்லாரும் வீரச்சோலை ஏத்தாளக் குளத்தில 60ம் ஆண்டிருந்து இரிக்கிறம். இஞ்ச ஒரு குடும்பம் இரிக்கி. நாங்கள் எல்லாம் உம்மா, வாப்பா சேத்து 7 பேர் (2 ஆண், 3 பெண்) வாப்பா கூலித்தொழில் செய்து கஸ்ரப்பட்டு எங்கள வளத்து வந்தாரு. 80ம் ஆண்டு நான் கலியாணம் முடிச்சி எனக்கு ஒரு ஆம்பிளப் பிள்ளை இரிக்கி. அவரும் (கணவர்) கூலித்தொழில் தான் செய்ற. சின்னச் சின்ன பிரச்சினைகளும் வாறான்.
87ம் ஆண்டு ஒரு நாள் எப்ப என்று மறந்து போயிற்று. தமிழ் ஆள் ஒருவர் தெரிஞ்சவர், ஓடிவாறார். வந்து மையவாடிப் பக்கம் பிரச்சினை. தப்பி ஓடும் என்டு சொன்னார். அதுக்குப் புறகு என்ன செய்ற என்டு தெரியாமல் எல்லாரும் சாமான் ஒன்டும் எடுக்கல. கதவு ஒன்டும் பூட்டயமில்ல. அப்படியே 5ம் குளனிக்குள்ளால ஓடி வீரத்திடலுக்கு போயிற்றம். அங்க போய் பள்ளியில இருந்தம். அங்க சாப்பாடு எல்லாம் தந்தாங்கள். அங்க ஒரு நாளும் அரை நாளும் இருந்தம். பிறகு இந்திய இராணுவத்தின் உதவியோட சம்மாந்துறை பெண்கள் பாடசாலையில கொண்டு விட்டாங்கள்.
அதுகுள புலி ஏரியாவாம் என்டு சொல்லி அவரு விட்டுப் போயிற்றாரு (மச்சாள்) உம்மாவும் (75 வயது) எங்களோட தான் இருந்த பாடசாலை இடம் காணாது என கொட்டில் அடிச்சித் தந்தாங்கள். நிவாரண உதவிகளும் செஞ்சாங்கள். அங்கயும் ஒரு வருடம் இருந்தம். அதுக்குப் புறகு சொந்தக்காரர் விட்ட கொட்டில் கட்டி ஐந்து வருடம் இருந்தம். அவரும் பிரிஞ்சி போய் விட்டாரு. அதுக்குப் புறகு நான் 96ம் ஆண்டு மெசின் சாரதி ஒருவரை கலியாணம் முடிச்சன். அவருக்கு பிள்ளைகள் ஒன்டும் இல்லை. அதுக்குப் பின்னர் 2001ம் ஆண்டு விபத்தால அவர் மௌத்தானார். என்ன செய்ற பயங்கரவாதத்தால பாதிச்ச ஆக்களுக்கு போம் நிரப்பப்பட்டு 25000 சைன் கேட்டு வைச்சிக் கொடுத்த, ஆனால் எங்களுக்கு 15,000 எனக்கு தந்தாங்கள்.
இடையில் வீட்ட போய் பாத்தம். அங்க ஒன்டும் இல்ல. (ஆடு, மாடு, கோழி, நெல்லு) பயத்தில அங்க இரிக்கல. அதுக்குப் புறகு சின்ன வளவுத் துண்டு வாங்கினேன். அவ இப்ப இரிக்கிற விலாசத்தில வறுமை கடும் கஸ்ர நிலை என்ன செய்தும் அல்லா தான் எல்லாம்.
